To avoid being abused, women must learn to guard and save themselves

On August 9, Gao Yu, a 20-year-old Chongqing Tongliang female college student, was unfortunately killed when she drove from Tongliang to Chongqing ’s urban area in a stranger ’s vehicle; 4 days, and was brutally beaten and sexually abused; in the early morning of August 28, Gao Qiuxi, a 19-year-old female college student in Wujiang, Jiangsu Province, was confirmed to be robbed and killed half a month after losing contact; In Wuhan, he died in a pond in Hefei.

In the past month, there have been several cases of violations of young women and female college students, which has aroused widespread concern in the society. How young women raise awareness of prevention and ensure their own safety has become an important topic.

Lack of prevention awareness leads to frequent violations

Xie Lili, a doctor of psychology and a criminology expert from the People ’s Public Security University of China, said that the commonality of these cases is that criminals invade money, invade, and temporarily initiate, while the victimized women lack security awareness and self-protection awareness.

In response to multiple female university student murders, Zhang Benyu, a teacher of the Fujian Normal University Mental Health Education Office, believes that some college students are already at their physical age, but their psychological age has not yet grown and matured accordingly. Fully understand, lack of awareness and ability to judge potential danger; Second, the effectiveness of schools in safety education is not high. Although colleges and universities attach great importance to safety education, the effectiveness of education cannot withstand the test of society. Due to the needs of work, communication and education, modern women have more opportunities to go out alone, and their security risks are also increasing.

Learn to save yourself from encountering danger

A retrospective analysis shows that many women suffer from infringement cases due to lack of self-awareness and resilience. In modern women, there is a typical misunderstanding of the "three will not", such as scared, let the bad guys at the mercy, will not resist; if you can't lie, ask what to say; if you don't dare to pull your legs and run. That is to say, when women are abused, they lack the knowledge and skills of self-help and just wait for him to save. This is passive and incorrect.

The police reminded that if it is already in a dangerous process, the victim should seize any possible opportunity and send out a distress message to the outside world, which is crucial to whether he can escape. When calling for help, the language should be concise and the words spoken clearly, such as "Human trafficker, call 110". In this case in Jinan, the female college student Xiao Jin secretly used the suspect's mobile phone to send a distress message to a friend while the suspect was not prepared, informing him that he had been kidnapped to a place called "Longzhuang" before being finally arrested by the police. Save it from the cave.

If unfortunately already in the process of being infringed, women should obtain materials on the spot for self-help. For example, when the criminal is very close, grab a handful of dirt on the ground and turn back to raise the criminal's face; or take advantage of his unpreparedness to attack his eyes; or use his knee to press his lower part.

If you do not have the ability to resist for personal reasons, do n’t resist, remember more about the characteristics of the criminals, and leave valuable evidence for future reports, but do n’t say things like “I remember you” to prevent the criminals from being forgiven. The scourge of death. At the same time, learn to leave a mark, or leave a clue. When detecting an infringement case, remnants, hair, fine spots, and scratches on the scene are very valuable clues.

Urgent need to improve their own safety precautions

In many cases, young women are killed when they go out alone. For this reason, the police remind women: 1. It is best not to go out alone. When going out, tell the family about the time and place. If the itinerary changes, contact the family in time; 2 , Do not take sparsely populated paths, short paths or alleys. Do not traverse an open area, choose a well-lit street at night; 3. Night travel should face the street instead of the front, look back at any time to observe the trail; 4. Don't wear expensive jewelry at night, don't reveal the belongings you carry, don't wear exposed Do not wear high-heeled clothes without wearing high-heeled shoes; 5. When driving alone, don't rush off when you encounter a suspicious stranger; take a taxi home at night, ask the driver to wait for a while, watch yourself enter the house, and then leave. If you take a long-distance bus, try not to sit in the last row of the bus; 6. Frequent night walkers should buy self-defense equipment, such as tear gas, screaming alarm, high-voltage electric shock, etc. 7. The handbag must be close to the body to Anti-robbed. In case of robbers, do n’t take risks, personal safety is more important than property; 8. If the car is threatened in front of you, run in the direction opposite to the front of the car, and shout loudly; 9. If you feel someone trailing, walk to the other side of the road Get rid of from the side, if necessary, walk repeatedly on both sides of the road to get rid of the trailing; 10. If the individual feels nervous and dangerous, immediately run to a crowded place, such as a canteen or movie theater. Run inside because criminals can easily block women inside.

In addition, now that most young women live alone or rent a house before they start a family, they must prevent burglary or robbery. You should always check the door locks and windows; if you think there is a suspicious person outdoors, do not go out and visit, you can call a friend or the police; single women should not cool the female clothes on the balcony; do not leave women on the newspaper mailbox Name; when you come home from work and find that there are signs of prying in the doors and windows, do not enter the house or yell, you should immediately go to the neighbor's house to find someone; the curtain must be pulled down at night indoors to prevent someone from peeping and infringing motivation. It is best not to be alone in the room with boys, and do not exceed 30 minutes when there is something.

In response to female security incidents in recent years, experts said that to reduce and prevent from the source, on the one hand, it is necessary to further increase the deterrence and crackdown on illegal and criminal activities, on the other hand, schools and families should strengthen security prevention education, more Women, especially young women, are required to improve their awareness and ability to respond.